first meeting 9th september
this is the day when we met first time at her home. it was the luckiest day of my life (i though at that time). Some time later she also told me that this day was luckiest for her. No doubt, nowadays she thinks this day as the worst day of her life. how it is changed? well who knows who is responsible? But every girl, atleast in India, thinks that love and marriage are the same thing. Just like in love where you are only with your lover, keep meeting each other, loving, caring, churning with life, all these things come only to you and your lover. But, after marriage, Its not only you and your wife or husband, but whole family is a part of marriage, hence you need to keep control and watch on each and every member. Here comes the turning point. The girl again thinks that there are only two persons married - husband and wife. But marriage is not that much smaller thing. Marriage is the bonding of two families together. The girl always wants her parents but bother even to talk with her in-laws. She thinks that only she is the centre of all the things and husband should always keep attention on her and no other person. What her duties are? She should keep intact the family where she has come. In this way she could live happily. But here comes the problem of nearly every Indian newly married person. He cant concentrate on his work and daily hectic schedule. There are daily matters in house also which have to be handled by the spouse but no choice. Marriage becomes problem. Love gets lost. No one tries to adjust and rethink about each other. And at this point the girl gets apart. This is the time when the girls parents should guide her. But, if they are also convinced by her that she is suffering then there is no way out. The couple breaks apart without any hesitation. Well, in this condition also I love and keep loving her but now she thinks I dont care about her and dont love her. Who is there to tell her that I STILL LOVE HER AND WILL LOVE HER ALWAYS.